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lilirish
  Post  Post subject: Moving Issue & Blessing Cancelations  |  Posted: Wed Feb 17, 2016 4:22 pm
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Ok first question. I'm in the process of buying a house and moving... I was noticing that the process can take 30+ days to go through. Would now be a bad time to submit my resignation? I was hoping I could submit it and move, and they might not know where I am... I guess I procrastinated too long... *sigh*

Secondly it was stated that "Your confirmation letter will also state that your temple blessings, priesthood authority and any and all blessings will be in effect canceled if you should proceed." Does this mean that my temple wedding will be null? I'm hoping this is the case, or will I have to request that separately? I have no desires to be tied to my ex in any way that can be avoided. I had wanted/intended to file for a "Temple Divorce", but had anxiety issues that caused my procrastination in that as well... because of having to meet with local leaders.


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Melanie
Post  Post subject: Re: Moving Issue & Blessing Cancelations  |  Posted: Wed Feb 17, 2016 5:08 pm
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Hi,
Welcome!

Yes, do resign now. Send in by email. Good plan, every reason to believe your hopes will be realised.

This below is what poc has written to another poster. I copy here as he understands best.viewtopic.php?f=2&t=50969#p129432

Does removing name break sealings? Yes to my understanding.
Even if ex is still active? Yes to my understanding.

The sealing has a His, Hers and Theirs parts/blessings. The removal of his name eliminates the His part of it and the Theirs part. The Hers part is not affected.

And as Rain says, it only matters if the LDS priesthood has any power and isn't really a made-up thing. Though even if it is made up, we often give things power by our thoughts. She will be bound to him if she thinks she is bound to him.


You do not need to mention or request voiding a temple wedding. You will have done all you can in resigning.

Do get back to the Board if you'd like to.

Good Luck

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lilirish
Post  Post subject: Re: Moving Issue & Blessing Cancelations  |  Posted: Wed Feb 17, 2016 5:14 pm
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Thanks. I tried doing a search for the sealing issue, I guess I just used the wrong wording. :P

I was planning to do a notarized letter, I heard that is "less" likely to result in attempted contacts than email, since they try to verify YOU sent the email. I would have the new husband play interference but he works more than I do, so I'm usually the one home.


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Melanie
Post  Post subject: Re: Moving Issue & Blessing Cancelations  |  Posted: Wed Feb 17, 2016 5:50 pm
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Hi, My advise is email every time.
Did you read the post Brandon put up today viewtopic.php?f=3&t=52022#p129453

But do as you feel confident in.

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lilirish
Post  Post subject: Re: Moving Issue & Blessing Cancelations  |  Posted: Wed Feb 17, 2016 6:01 pm
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Thanks. I hope it may be that quickly. Buying the house and moving is enough anxiety, but I feel this needs to be done, and is a while in coming. I haven't been active in.... many years, I forget the exact last time I attended.


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Melanie
Post  Post subject: Re: Moving Issue & Blessing Cancelations  |  Posted: Thu Feb 18, 2016 8:42 am
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The future waits... and this is solely an admin process for you, but like all admin, it feels good when it is done. All power to you.

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lilirish
Post  Post subject: Re: Moving Issue & Blessing Cancelations  |  Posted: Thu Feb 18, 2016 9:54 am
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Thanks. Submitted the email last night.


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Melanie
Post  Post subject: Re: Moving Issue & Blessing Cancelations  |  Posted: Thu Feb 18, 2016 12:54 pm
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Great news, congratulations! I am so pleased for you. :-)

:handgestures-salute:

gorgeous colours on your avatar, btw

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lilirish
Post  Post subject: Re: Moving Issue & Blessing Cancelations  |  Posted: Thu Feb 18, 2016 4:10 pm
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Thanks, He's a fantastic photographer. :D


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