Thanks for posting it 3 times just in case we missed it.
Melanie, "the moderator" has a rule:
"Solicitations for information from the members of the Ex-Mormon Forums is not allowed. Please do not register on these forums for the purpose of gathering personal information from our members. Those posts will be immediately locked. As Mormons, we were conditioned to hand that information over readily. As Ex-Mormons, we should be cautious and guard our personal and private information. Note: This does not include POLLS created by members for members."
That's why I was shocked to see the rule violated; um. Um.
Is it possible someone is not on the level???